WHEN LIFE HAS NOT TURNED OUT AS YOU PLANNED

LIFEDo you believe that whenever God closes a door, He opens a window?

That is, do you believe that when we come upon a dead end in life, that it’s because there’s always a better opportunity around the corner?

I wish it was that simple, but we all know that there have been many times when crawling out of the only open window meant being caught outside in the cold, harsh world. You want to kick that slammed door back open, or at least crawl back through the window where it’s warm and cozy and just start over.

But to no fault of your own, you can’t. The door is shut, that ship has sailed.

It could be a job loss, a break-up, a misunderstanding, a disappointment, anything.

It could be losing something that you cherished and thanked God for every day, something that you knew beyond the shadow of a doubt that He gave you. So you cry out:

Lord, why did you take it away?

What if you knew from an early age that God set a purpose for you, only to find yourself on a roller coaster ride of extreme ups and downs, none of which made any sense?

Think you have problems? Take a look at the life of Joseph, the son of Jacob, as told in Genesis 37, 39 – 47. Here’s how all the highs and lows of his life played out:

  • As a boy, he was his father’s favorite (high)
  • He was hated by his brothers for it, and sold into slavery (low)
  • After being delivered from slavery, (high)
  • He rose to prominence in Potiphar’s (an officer of Pharaoh) palace (high)
  • Then, he was wrongfully accused of rape (low)
  • As a result, he was thrown into prison for years (low)
  • In prison, he interpreted a fellow prisoner’s dream. After getting out of prison, this prisoner (a butler), promised to speak well of Joseph to get him out, too. (high)
  • Yet Joseph was forgotten, and left in jail (low)
  • Years later, the butler finally remembered Joseph. Joseph was taken out of prison to interpret Pharaoh’s dream. (high)
  • From there, Joseph was elevated in rank right next to Pharaoh himself.  (high)
  • This put him in a position to forgive his brothers and save them from a famine in their land. (high)

If you ask me, that doesn’t look like an easy life of one progressive step of success to another, and for such a godly guy, you’d think life would be easier. Yet in the end, Joseph life came full circle. He looked back on it and the pieces finally made sense. It must have been such a soothing balm to his heart as he realized God’s hand in everything the whole time.

So back to that slammed door.  Do I believe that God can open a window of greater opportunity?

Yes, He certainly can.

And He can use that slammed door, (that one that feels like it’s slammed right on our heart till we can’t breathe, yeah that one), as a blessing to immediately bring us to a bigger, better circumstance.

Or…He can bring about the good in your life through a series of shut and open doors. Either way, His love is cast upon His children to the point of no denial in the end.

If you know Jesus as your Savior, if you are His child, know this. He is FOR you and not against you. I’m glad to know that, so I hang on for what’s ahead. Sure, I pray for blessing. Who doesn’t? Yet in hope, there must be submission to His authority in this not-so-perfect world.  We can make our plans, but it is the Lord’s purpose that presides.

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 Have you had a circumstance happen that left you absolutely baffled? Has someone handed you a raw deal? Have you come through it to see God’s ultimate purpose? I look forward to hearing your stories!

 

 

 

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7 thoughts on “WHEN LIFE HAS NOT TURNED OUT AS YOU PLANNED

    • Thank you Andy! I’ve always been drawn to the story of Joseph. It is really encouraging to me to see that he persevered through so much and never lost faith. God bless you, Margo

    • Thank you, Carol. Isn’t it funny that we look back and see those opportunities as a blessing now, when at the time they may not have seemed like it. Praise God we can see His hand in all situations!

  1. ” And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to [his] purpose. ” ( Romans 8:28 )

    And in Joseph’s case, all things did. He’s just one example in God’s word of the Lord carrying through and doing what He said He would…centuries later to the Romans through Paul. How shall they not all work TOGETHER for good in ANY believer’s case? They will, even if we flub it bad.

    You said, ” Lord, why did you take it away?” Because He did…and we must remember with Job,

    ” Naked came I out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return thither: the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” ( Job 1:21 )

    This is a HARD thing to say when we are hurting. But I believe that as we grow in grace and klnowledge, this will become easier to handle…because we can trust that He is doing His will, and whatever happens, He loves us eternally.

    Thanks for the post, Margo.

    • “Why Lord?”
      “Because He did”
      A great response. I have applied that to a recent loss and it’s the only thing that makes sense.

      Because He did.

      Thanks Dave.

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